The Funeral

After the happy occasion comes a sad one. I have contemplated whether to go as its the same day as the wedding but i felt I have to go since it is another of my good friend's mother in law's wake. My friend is very down.

Chinese says "pang tang" to attend "white" and "red". Some people cannot attend because blah blah blah, many reasons. Somemore its the same day! But if it's a good friend, I think the support is important.

I'm glad I went, she needed to talk to us badly, she is tired and stress and depress about the whole episode as her MIL passed away suddendly. Went into the doctor's room for check up and pronounced heart failure.

It was supposed to be a check up but it turn out to be this way. Nobody expected this. She is lost. I teared a lot when she spoke to us. The feeling of loss of someone close is unbearable.

Wedding and funeral... In a day. I duno how to feel about this.